Friday, November 7, 2008

A Big Anniversary - Four Years Since My Car Accident


Yes, that's right - today is four years since my car accident. I can't believe that so much time has passed.
Last year, just one year ago, I was in such a different place (and I blogged about the three-year anniversary). I was totally demoralized, completely hopeless, and crippled by pain. I was angry at the man who crashed into me, saddened by the doctors who made me feel crazy for being in so much pain, helpless to find anything to make me feel better, depressed, as I watched my life fade away, and stuck in this accelerating downfall.
And, now?
Wow.
What a difference. Like the butterfly the accompanies this post, I feel as if I am reborn, spreading my wings, and taking flight. I feel healthy, strong, YOUNG, confident, and renewed. I really wasn't sure if this feeling would ever come. I was so sure that I would be handicapped for the rest of my life, and that it was all going down the drain. Yet, as my therapist points out, I kept working at my own healing, and I brought it about - I found new doctors, I kept pursuing answers, and I discovered that I WAS RIGHT ALL ALONG! There was something serious going on in my back (a fractured spine), it was fixable, and I WOULD GET BETTER.
And here I am. I am grateful for your support, love, and encouagement, from the darkest of days through the parting of the clouds. This anniversary is so different from last year's, and I know that it can only get better from here on out.
So, while I will never be thankful for the accident, I am thankful for all the lessons learned, the power of healing, the feeling of vitality that flows through my body, and the blessings of friends and family.

3 comments:

Sarene said...

I am so happy for you! What a wonderful attitude you have developed. It's taken a few years, but you should be so proud of yourself that you have finally gotten to such a healthy place.

Thanks for your support on my health issue too ;-)

Lindsay said...

beautiful. brava.

zilla said...

Blessings, blessings, blessings, and every happiness, Marci B.

I am glad for you, and glad to *know* you.